The is something that i have wanted to write about for some time. This bonding exorcise is one that is really effective and intimate. How ever it is't something that you do all the time it is for special needed attention. Also note that this kind of bonding is done at different times for different reasons. For example i like to use this with a submissive as part of after care following a high level session where my sub was in what we call "sub space" for a long period of time. I use this with a pet sparingly as part of grooming to help build the bond between pet and owner and to bring my pet deeper in to there roll. I have fond that this is something that you should put real time and effort into. I added a list of somethings that i use and i think may make your bath time fulfilling and intimate. Fill your bath with hot water, and add a generous amount of bath oil or gel for that touch of intimacy. You could also use incense or burn essential oils in a purpose-made burner. I can not stress enough the importance of bonding. The longer your with someone weather its in the life style or in a vanilla relationship it take maintenance to keep things good and hard work to make things great. If you put in the time and care it will return to you and keep everyone happy.
You'll need:
- candles
- unscented bath oils, gels and soaps (so they don't clash with other scents)
- large, warm, fluffy towels
- loofahs, flannels, sponges
- ice cubes
Intimate scents: These can be mixed with ether relaxing or stimulating scents.
- jasmine
- rose
- orange blossom
- sandalwood
- ylang-ylang
- lavender
- lemon
- verbena
- rosemary
- sage
- thyme
- chamomile
- jasmine
- limeflower
- vervaine
This will dissolve any stress in the body let over from a session, they just watch the flicker of candlelight and revel in the soothing sensation of oils and foam.
When they are fully relaxed, use a brush or a loofah and plenty of shower gel or soap to work up a lather. Scrub them from heat to toe and add a blast of cold water or rub an ice cube on sensitive spots to get their skin tingling.
Follow with soft flannels and sponges to soothe and smooth. The key throughout is contrast: use scratchy back brushes followed by smooth oils, and have ice cubes on hand to stimulate their heated bodies.
Finish by wrapping them in large, warm towels and lay them down for a 30 to 45 minute nap. Trust when i say you will see fulfillment in your Sub, Slave, or pet.
