There are several types of male dominants. These are general types and aspects can very from Dom to Dom. The second is a great typology list as well, im pretty sure you will be able to see why there are two parts to this list.
The Alpha Male:
This man is supremely sure of himself and has no problem dominating the panties off any submissive. He knows what to say and how to be dismissive enough to attract most women like flies. He has no problem being aloof and giving any type of command. He does not apologize for being male or for being dominant. He feels entitled to your submission and will do whatever he feels is necessary to keep you at his feet. Do not try to be bratty, as he would likely not tolerate it. He also would not be happy with a doormat, as he likes someone with intelligence and good enough looks so he can use his bragging rights as having the best looking sub slut. Do not bother him if you are outside of his attraction range. What this man is attracted to is different for each Dom BUT UNDERSTAND whether its slim, medium, or BBW he is going to only want the best. He likes his girls height-weight-proportionate. He also generally incorporates sex into submission. If this is not what you are looking for, move on.
The Lazy Dom:
This guy is one of those who would always be looking for that new spanking machine that could save him from doing the spanking himself. He does not do a lot at his home and would expect you to do most things in his home. You will get very well acquainted with all the gadgets and electronic equipment in his home to do any household chore. He will also have several electronic sex toys and would be very happy to stuff you with toys and leave you in a cage the whole day. Anything to not have to do too much. When you have sex, he will also be doing the minimum to get you ready, so you better hope that you are quick to excite and that you can sustain that indefinitely. He will expect you to look after yourself, but will not dismiss you offhand if you are overweight. He knows the gym is close and you will be joining at his command. He would generally not be interested in 24/7 responsibilities either.
The Master:
This guy expects a little more from someone who wants to submit. He wants a slave who would accept his limits or lack of them. He wants someone who will literally do anything and will go through anything for him. He could be very happy with anything from a doormat to a highly trained, well-qualified girl. He is all about accepting responsibility for you and is up for making all the decisions. He will be responsible and will hold you to your promises of submission quite strictly. He will not accept anything less than the best and will want to know you better than you know yourself. He is curious, unapologetic and strict. He looks deeper than just your appearance and submission attracts him far more than anything else. He has researched BDSM and knows what to do when he plays with most tools. He is the type who would test new toys on himself first to make sure he does not harm his submissive or slave. This is a good type of dominant to go for if you have the dream of being the perfect slave.
The Player:
This guy is sometimes married, sometimes not, but not interested in relationship. He gets his jollies from playing once a week and will study whatever the techniques of the scene he prefers requires for efficiency with rapt attention. He is more interested in becoming the best player with rope than he is in building a relationship with any submissive. We have jokingly called Doms like this, "McDonalds Drive Through of BDSM". They will move on from one sub to the next in record time. You know though that you will not get hurt, as they know what they are doing within their chosen activity.
The Daddy Dominant:
These dominants are wonderful to play with as they have a few characteristics that arevparticularly likeable. They are gentle and prefer to guide and teach their little girls how to serve and how to succeed in serving. They are strict and consistent and make sure that both punishment and reward is given when needed. They will give a submissive a look and that girl will know she has done something wrong and will need to atone. They do not scream. They do not lack control. They are responsible and loving and are interested in relationships that could even be 24/7. After the Master, these are the type of dominants that I identify with above all else.
The Pure Sadist:
This type of dominant is purely sadistic and will stop at nothing to figure out new ways to hurt a girl. They are sneaky and inventive and will look for new ways to torture a girl physically or mentally all the time. They need to hurt someone - it is a need and their perfect partners are the so-called masochists.
There are a few more types of Dominants, but these are the most often found stereotypes.
• Daddy Doms or the gender opposite Mommy Dommes; are usually mature individuals who like to have young people, assume the role of daughter or son. This is a relationship found on the extension and evolution of a “positive" incestuous relationship. Many times light discipline (spanking) and other forms of home “play” is included.
• Gorean Master’s largely follow the writings (which have almost become religious texts to the officiandos) of John Norman and his series of Gor. There has evolved a whole code of living and sets of responsibilities for all parties that extend far beyond the sexual in these books and have formed the basis of many of the modern lifestyle affiliates.
• Femdom Mistress is where a woman fills a very strong and demanding role and exhibits strong gender role reversals. Males are usually large and more dominant in the natural world. Femdom is a demonstration of the strength of the woman and usually one of the more abusive dominants. Femdom is not only directed to men, but many times can include women in the submissive role, but almost always the Mistress assumes the male role even to sexual acts.
• Saddists, another group of masters follow the works of Donatien Alphonse François who was prolific in writing psychological discourses on the sexuality. His graphic works (the most famous being Justine) are an illustrated text on how to inflict sexual arousal through the application of pain. Typically these are the serious abusers and tormentors of our lifestyle. The word Saddist actually comes from his title as the Marquis du Sade.
• Bears are usually members of the gay community who are involved in the leather culture, have heavy set hairy bodies and exhibit hyper masculinity. They dominate very feminine and diminutive men with their excessive appetites. Many prefer lady-boys although some are bisexual and will take young small “boyish” girls into their families as well. There a number of these in biker organizations as it establishes hierarchical orders and strong dominance.
• Lesser Gods, are individuals who demand to be treated like a god in their home and worshiped (usually forsake other gods or religions). Many of these are ritualistic and have very clearly defined activities largely based on ego gratification. Even sex with them is usually one sided. The god receives the worship and gratification, and slave service is to please.
• Pharoanic Lords sometimes are included into Lesser Gods but has distinct traits. They have the largest of poly households, usually 4-5 but at times as many as 10 or more; depending on what they can afford to keep. Many have numerous children by various slaves. They keep slaves for specific purposes and do not always use all slave for sexual pleasures. They tend to be severe disciplinarians but do not exhibit cruelty for its own sake.
• Farmers, tend to be ones who collect slaves, house and treat them as animals. They also have large groups but typically not treated as a family but rather a herd. This group likes dehumanization and is into slave bestiality. Typically this group is the most commercial of owners because their goal is to break and train slave for sale or rent.
There are some other categories as well but they are extremely fringe and have minor influence on the community.
The Alpha Male:
This man is supremely sure of himself and has no problem dominating the panties off any submissive. He knows what to say and how to be dismissive enough to attract most women like flies. He has no problem being aloof and giving any type of command. He does not apologize for being male or for being dominant. He feels entitled to your submission and will do whatever he feels is necessary to keep you at his feet. Do not try to be bratty, as he would likely not tolerate it. He also would not be happy with a doormat, as he likes someone with intelligence and good enough looks so he can use his bragging rights as having the best looking sub slut. Do not bother him if you are outside of his attraction range. What this man is attracted to is different for each Dom BUT UNDERSTAND whether its slim, medium, or BBW he is going to only want the best. He likes his girls height-weight-proportionate. He also generally incorporates sex into submission. If this is not what you are looking for, move on.
The Lazy Dom:
This guy is one of those who would always be looking for that new spanking machine that could save him from doing the spanking himself. He does not do a lot at his home and would expect you to do most things in his home. You will get very well acquainted with all the gadgets and electronic equipment in his home to do any household chore. He will also have several electronic sex toys and would be very happy to stuff you with toys and leave you in a cage the whole day. Anything to not have to do too much. When you have sex, he will also be doing the minimum to get you ready, so you better hope that you are quick to excite and that you can sustain that indefinitely. He will expect you to look after yourself, but will not dismiss you offhand if you are overweight. He knows the gym is close and you will be joining at his command. He would generally not be interested in 24/7 responsibilities either.
The Master:
This guy expects a little more from someone who wants to submit. He wants a slave who would accept his limits or lack of them. He wants someone who will literally do anything and will go through anything for him. He could be very happy with anything from a doormat to a highly trained, well-qualified girl. He is all about accepting responsibility for you and is up for making all the decisions. He will be responsible and will hold you to your promises of submission quite strictly. He will not accept anything less than the best and will want to know you better than you know yourself. He is curious, unapologetic and strict. He looks deeper than just your appearance and submission attracts him far more than anything else. He has researched BDSM and knows what to do when he plays with most tools. He is the type who would test new toys on himself first to make sure he does not harm his submissive or slave. This is a good type of dominant to go for if you have the dream of being the perfect slave.
The Player:
This guy is sometimes married, sometimes not, but not interested in relationship. He gets his jollies from playing once a week and will study whatever the techniques of the scene he prefers requires for efficiency with rapt attention. He is more interested in becoming the best player with rope than he is in building a relationship with any submissive. We have jokingly called Doms like this, "McDonalds Drive Through of BDSM". They will move on from one sub to the next in record time. You know though that you will not get hurt, as they know what they are doing within their chosen activity.
The Daddy Dominant:
These dominants are wonderful to play with as they have a few characteristics that arevparticularly likeable. They are gentle and prefer to guide and teach their little girls how to serve and how to succeed in serving. They are strict and consistent and make sure that both punishment and reward is given when needed. They will give a submissive a look and that girl will know she has done something wrong and will need to atone. They do not scream. They do not lack control. They are responsible and loving and are interested in relationships that could even be 24/7. After the Master, these are the type of dominants that I identify with above all else.
The Pure Sadist:
This type of dominant is purely sadistic and will stop at nothing to figure out new ways to hurt a girl. They are sneaky and inventive and will look for new ways to torture a girl physically or mentally all the time. They need to hurt someone - it is a need and their perfect partners are the so-called masochists.
There are a few more types of Dominants, but these are the most often found stereotypes.
• Daddy Doms or the gender opposite Mommy Dommes; are usually mature individuals who like to have young people, assume the role of daughter or son. This is a relationship found on the extension and evolution of a “positive" incestuous relationship. Many times light discipline (spanking) and other forms of home “play” is included.
• Gorean Master’s largely follow the writings (which have almost become religious texts to the officiandos) of John Norman and his series of Gor. There has evolved a whole code of living and sets of responsibilities for all parties that extend far beyond the sexual in these books and have formed the basis of many of the modern lifestyle affiliates.
• Femdom Mistress is where a woman fills a very strong and demanding role and exhibits strong gender role reversals. Males are usually large and more dominant in the natural world. Femdom is a demonstration of the strength of the woman and usually one of the more abusive dominants. Femdom is not only directed to men, but many times can include women in the submissive role, but almost always the Mistress assumes the male role even to sexual acts.
• Saddists, another group of masters follow the works of Donatien Alphonse François who was prolific in writing psychological discourses on the sexuality. His graphic works (the most famous being Justine) are an illustrated text on how to inflict sexual arousal through the application of pain. Typically these are the serious abusers and tormentors of our lifestyle. The word Saddist actually comes from his title as the Marquis du Sade.
• Bears are usually members of the gay community who are involved in the leather culture, have heavy set hairy bodies and exhibit hyper masculinity. They dominate very feminine and diminutive men with their excessive appetites. Many prefer lady-boys although some are bisexual and will take young small “boyish” girls into their families as well. There a number of these in biker organizations as it establishes hierarchical orders and strong dominance.
• Lesser Gods, are individuals who demand to be treated like a god in their home and worshiped (usually forsake other gods or religions). Many of these are ritualistic and have very clearly defined activities largely based on ego gratification. Even sex with them is usually one sided. The god receives the worship and gratification, and slave service is to please.
• Pharoanic Lords sometimes are included into Lesser Gods but has distinct traits. They have the largest of poly households, usually 4-5 but at times as many as 10 or more; depending on what they can afford to keep. Many have numerous children by various slaves. They keep slaves for specific purposes and do not always use all slave for sexual pleasures. They tend to be severe disciplinarians but do not exhibit cruelty for its own sake.
• Farmers, tend to be ones who collect slaves, house and treat them as animals. They also have large groups but typically not treated as a family but rather a herd. This group likes dehumanization and is into slave bestiality. Typically this group is the most commercial of owners because their goal is to break and train slave for sale or rent.
There are some other categories as well but they are extremely fringe and have minor influence on the community.
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