Submissive's Checklist


For each item, you need to provide two answers:

For Experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.

Mark N/A if it does not apply to you.

For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about "DOING" that activity by rating it on a scale of 0 to 10. 0 being hell no (hard limit) and 10 being hell yes.

“?” Means you don’t understand what the item is attempting to describe.

A hard limit means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances and you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it).

A soft limit means you would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit your Dom / Master to do it if they really wanted to.

This scale will help you rate the items.


1. means you don’t want to do, or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.



4. means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.



6. means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.



8. means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.



10. means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.



Mark with an asterisk (*) those items, which you are willing to do only with your Dom / Master, but not with casual play partners.

There is intentionally some overlap between activities. Unless otherwise stated, the sub is the recipient/target of the activity.

Copy and paste this checklist to a document text so you can mark your answers next to each item.


Experience Yes or No/ Willingness 0 to 5
  1. Anal sex 
  2. Anal plugs 
  3. Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders) 
  4. Asphyxiation 
  5. Beating (soft) 
  6. Blindfolds 
  7. Being serviced (sexual) 
  8. Being bitten 
  9. Bondage 
  10. Breath control 
  11. Bruises 
  12. Caning 
  13. Chains 
  14. Chauffeuring (driving) 
  15. Choking 
  16. Chores (domestic service) 
  17. Clothespins 
  18. Cock worship 
  19. Collars 
  20. Corsets (wearing casually) 
  21. Cuffs 
  22. Cutting 
  23. Dildoes 
  24. Double penetration 
  25. Examinations (physical) 
  26. Exhibitionism 
  27. Eye contact restrictions 
  28. Face slapping 
  29. Fantasy abandonment 
  30. Fantasy rape 
  31. Fantasy gang-rape 
  32. Fear (being scared) 
  33. Fisting (vaginal) 
  34. Following orders 
  35. Forced homosexuality 
  36. Forced heterosexuality 
  37. Forced masturbation 
  38. Forced nudity 
  39. Forced servitude 
  40. Forced sodomy 
  41. Full head hoods 
  42. Gags 
  43. Genital sex 
  44. Golden showers 
  45. Hair pulling 
  46. Hair or head held during oral sex 
  47. Hand jobs (giving) 
  48. Hand jobs (receiving) 
  49. Harems (serving w/other subs) 
  50. Harnessing 
  51. Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) 
  52. Head (receiving fellatio/cunnilingus) 
  53. High heel wearing 
  54. Hoods 
  55. Housework (doing) 
  56. Ice cubes 
  57. Immobilization 
  58. Kidnapping 
  59. Kneeling 
  60. Knife play 
  61. Leather clothing 
  62. Leather restraints 
  63. Lectures for misbehavior 
  64. Licking (non-sexual) 
  65. Lingerie (wearing) 
  66. Manacles & Irons 
  67. Manicures (giving) 
  68. Massage (giving) 
  69. Modeling for erotic photos 
  70. Mouth bits 
  71. Nipple clamps 
  72. Nipple play/”torture” 
  73. Oral/anal play (rimming) 
  74. Over-the-knee spanking 
  75. Orgasm control 
  76. Outdoor sex 
  77. Pain 
  78. Persona training (in scene) 
  79. Phone sex 
  80. Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) 
  81. Prison scenes 
  82. Prostitution scenes 
  83. Punishment scene 
  84. Pussy worship 
  85. Riding crops 
  86. Rituals 
  87. Restrictive rules on behavior 
  88. Scratching - getting 
  89. Sensory deprivation 
  90. Serving 
  91. Serving as furniture 
  92. Serving as a maid 
  93. Serving as waitress/waiter 
  94. Serving orally (sexual) 
  95. Serving other Doms 
  96. Shaving (body hair) 
  97. Shaving (genital hair) 
  98. Skinny-dipping 
  99. Slutty clothing 
  100. Spanking 
  101. Speech restrictions (when, what) 
  102. Spreader bars 
  103. Standing in corner 
  104. Stocks 
  105. Straight jackets 
  106. Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) 
  107. Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) 
  108. Strap-on-dildos (wearing/using) 
  109. Suspension 
  110. Supplying new partners for Dom 
  111. Swallowing semen 
  112. Swapping/Swinging 
  113. Teasing/Tickling 
  114. Triple penetration 
  115. Uniforms 
  116. Verbal humiliation 
  117. Vibrator 
  118. Voyeurism (watching others) 
  119. Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) 
  120. Video (watching others) 
  121. Video (recordings of you) 
  122. Wearing symbolic jewelry 
  123. Whipping 
  124. Wooden paddle (punishment)













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